Parenting

Beneath The SurfaceProducts Relating to 'Beneath The Surface'

What lies Beneath the Surface of the building block of society is in its most basic nothing more then what we call parenting.Defining the same, is what I feel, although not a parent myself, what I deserved when I was small.Looking at things from the perspective of a child might open lids, so that the light of the day falls on those who feel genuinely for their childrens better tomorrow:

a) Love: What every human worth his/her while penultimately craves for is love.It goes without saying that the same has been intrinsically seeded by nature.WHat it desparately needs is honing,like any other emotion for e.g.being good is a choice and although it is there it needs nurturing to make it a habit.Love should never be taken for granted.What lies Beneath the Surface is an unquenchable thirst for love.

b) Attention: If you consider the number of nappies that the mother changes,besides geting up in the middle of the night umpten number of times to run to her child at the slighest of its wail,having a child can at times seem a curse in the disguise of a blessing.Nannies can do the same more efficiently if you decide to part with half of what you earn in a month.The child however never forgets the womb and is not naive enough to tell the real from the decoy.What lies Beneath the Surface for the child is neglect and a feeling of being alienated.

c) Role Model: COnsidering the number of flings that leave many a naive in the care of others, the child gradually inculcates that being non committed is passe.Beleive me the greatest and most prised of your sacrifices in the eyes of God is the sacrifice of infidelity,at least for the sake of your child.There is solution to every problem on earth and spinning in the opposite direction of the same is not the best of solutions.What lies Beneath the Surface is who is with whom with the press waiting for the next boom.

What lies Beneath the Surface:A Focus on the Prima Facie

What lies Beneath the Surface for love:

Flings, no strings attached,whims and fancies are the most publisied and accentuated of phenomena.Media glare speculates that the same is to spread negative publicity,but it is the opposite that actually takes effect i.e, wandering aimlessly in the search of true love leaves behind an aftermath of children who for no fault of theirs become the Children of a Lessor God.Love for them is the rarest of all, deprived of an all enveloping family unit.Responsibility and the onus of ruining an existennce even before it is born is in your hands.BE CAREFULL, if you do not have the mettle to parent then please don't.There is an unwanted flourish of youth disrupted by myraid gores and sores that they have witnessed from day one.

What lies Beneath the Surface for attention:

Pardon me if sound chauvenistic or from the age of the stones, but nature has set the rhythm and no matter how affluent or happy we may seem superficially,we shall continue to be in disharmony.No wonder nobody wants to wait till do them part.Every atom in nature has a roleplay set for the foreplay.Let the man be the provider and the women the organiser.Taking care of home sweet home can never debilitate the status, that of cherishing the most important of jobs on earth, creating a better tomorow.

What lies Beneath the Surface for role models:

Simple, heaven on earth and heaven in heaven.Just abide by the nuamces that nature sets by default.The most difficult and the most dificult job on the earth is managing a family and as luck would have it the best qualified for the same is the woman who bears the brunt of bearing a child in her womb for nine months.The whole and sole provider according to me should be the man of the house.His strife of ecking a living all his ife can nt even match a day of those nine months.

Man,woman and child staying and sharing their joys and sorrows together are the best of models that the world can perceive of.

ENding Note :

Beneath the surface lie the fortunes of truth

Beneath the surface lies the essence of youth

Beneath the surface is what we always buy

Beneath the surface lies the big as well as the small fry.

Article Published: Tuesday 9th October 2007